Cleaning House

Cigarettes were first to go. It's been 10 days. During one of the most difficult times of my life, I have not lit up ONCE. Its very empowering.

Second to go. Toxic relationships. This letter was e-mailed this morning;

"I've taken steps away from you for months now, not that you would have noticed nor cared. I'm now ready to sever the ties. I choose not to allow you in my life anymore. Any relationship with you is toxic and I've come to acknowledge that will never change. As always, you are free to visit with your grandchildren (outside of my home) and obviously we'll have to share space at family functions but respect me enough to honor my wishes. Don't send me some long e-mail or phone me. I'm really not interested . Its dead. "

More is coming. I'm only beginning to gain speed ....